If you are like many people, you probably wonder, how can you find and date the hottest women in the world? There are plenty of options, but the problem is that most people just don’t know how to find them. Here are some tips that will help you get started.
Online dating is rigged in women’s favour
In the past decade, dating has become more difficult for half of the population in the U.S., according to a recent poll. One of the biggest problems is that online dating is heavily superficial. It reflects natural stereotypes and is not a fair game for men. Men are expected to initiate contact, but if they don’t, they aren’t likely to have real chances. And since women receive more attention, they are more likely to receive unwanted messages, and are more likely to be subject to verbal abuse.
Dating apps have also normalized harassment and abuse against women, and the use of non-consensual images and nudes. For example, Tinder shows that 80% of women are competing for 20% of the men on the site. Another example is Bumble, which supposedly has an algorithm that weeds out bad matches, but many people are skeptical of this. Similarly, Facebook created the Facemash app to determine which female students are hot.
The result is that a large number of men feel unable to date high quality women, and a growing subset of the incel crowd feels as though they are too unattractive to be able to date quality women. These men feel as though they are unable to meet the standards of other men and that they will never be able to find a partner.
As a result, men are more selective when they do date. They tend to write off people if they don’t blow them away in their first date. However, this isn’t always the case. A lousy photo or grammar mistake can turn a person off. This leads to casual sex, ghosting, or worse.
Women are also more likely to face physical threats. Young women are twice as likely to experience verbal abuse. While this may seem like a natural consequence of being young and female, it’s important to note that in this age of social media and virtual dating, it’s become commonplace to see sexually explicit images and messages being sent to women. There are a growing number of men posing as women on these websites, and it’s easy to imagine how this could lead to increased incidents of physical violence.
Finally, online dating isn’t a ‘fair’ game. If you’re rejected because of your height, your income, or a spelling error, you’re probably writing off the person right away. Since attraction isn’t a formula, it’s hard to judge who’s actually more attractive. Furthermore, men aren’t accustomed to dating women in real life, and don’t have an easy time navigating social settings. Ultimately, online dating is a struggle for all sides. Even men admit that it’s a challenge to navigate the online dating world.
When a man finds a woman who he’s interested in, he must initiate contact. But it’s not enough to just send an email or chat. He’s expected to be persistent and to start a conversation, which can be a challenge for someone who isn’t very good with words.